The Month Of The Military Child: An Interview With Our Five Girls

The Month Of The Military Child: An Interview With Our Five Girls

Military life is something I am extremely passionate about.  I have been "married" to the Navy for almost 14 years.  I have shared with you in Resilience in Military Spouses and Resilience in Military Spouses..Part 2 about some of the sacrifices I have made as a military spouse.  Some will never know what being married to the [...]


Separation​ and Reunification: Military Life

Separation​ and Reunification: Military Life

Learning to deal with a separation and reunification has been consistent over this past year.  Because I am away from my normal support system of family and friends, it is definitely a different feel. Undoubtedly, the girls' and I have managed to accept the "what is" knowing that this is temporary (they are so strong!).  But [...]

Resilience in Military Spouses..Part 2

"The resiliency that is forced on military spouses, families, and service members is dynamic. It’s unscheduled, tough, learn as you go, unwritten rules and regulations which go unspoken amongst the ranks of all military spouses." My grand idea to deal with the scenario is to start my own blog website and volunteer at my church [...]

Resilience​ in Military Spouses

I don’t believe in today’s time and age it would be a difficult task explaining to someone that military service and the necessity of resiliency go hand and hand. However, I would venture to say perhaps a forsaken aspect of military service is the spouse and family left behind during military deployments. Yes, I absolutely [...]

The Why and How

I am writing my story... Joyce Myers once said in her daily devotion, that the unfair things that happened to us throughout our life, will make us the person God wants lives to be. After the twins read my first blog, they asked: “Mommy what is a nontraditional military family?” It dawned on me that we [...]

Get to know Me!

Welcome to my site, my name is Trenye.  I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Florida.  For the past five years, I have worked with risky adolescents and their families. One of my ultimate goals is to facilitate positive social change for individuals and the community.  I am married to the most attentive man in [...]