Get to know Me!

Welcome to my site, my name is Trenye.  I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Florida.  For the past five years, I have worked with risky adolescents and their families. One of my ultimate goals is to facilitate positive social change for individuals and the community.  I am married to the most attentive man in the world. We recently celebrated our 13th wedding anniversary in July.  Together, he and I have five daughters.  Our youngest is a set of twin girls.  We are a non-traditional, proud and hardworking military family (more to come on that subject) that loves to live, love, and laugh.  Below are a few pictures of my loves!

Although the military life has helped me to define my weakness and strengths, this site will cover far more than military.  Sometimes we need a relatable individual with real-life experiences to believe and know “I can!” Therefore, I started this site specifically for individuals (young and old) who have a desire to be…anything they want despite life obstacles. A phenomenal individual (my husband ;o)) once told me, “when you can relate, you can connect.” Let’s connect!
Visiting my site you can expect to learn what a non-traditional life looks like for a military spouse/family, parenting, relationships, education/career, trauma-informed care strategies, self-love, resiliency, goal setting and much more!
Thank you for taking the time to visit my blog! Please leave a comment to let me know you visited and if you have specific topics for discussions.  Stay encouraged!


  1. ATOE.Blog

    September 15, 2018 at 9:17 PM

    Welcome to the world of blogging!! It is always nice to find fellow veterans who share their opinions!

  2. Delilah

    September 16, 2018 at 11:54 AM

    I believe in those who use their skills for good and helping people in the process.

    1. Trenye B.

      September 16, 2018 at 8:39 PM

      I appreciate your kind words!

    2. Trenye B.

      September 18, 2018 at 4:44 PM

      Absolutely Soror! Thanks for the support.

  3. maryeliell

    September 16, 2018 at 4:36 PM

    I’m excited to see what you have in store for us! It feels good knowing I have an outlet to voice some concerns I may have and recieve the necessary feedback to become my best me and help others around me.

    1. Trenye B.

      September 16, 2018 at 8:41 PM

      I’m looking forward to open discussions!

    2. Trenye B.

      September 18, 2018 at 4:45 PM

      Thanks for following! We are in this together. We are all here to connect and grow!

  4. Ashley

    September 17, 2018 at 8:30 AM

    You are one of the smartest, hard working, compassionate, yet real ladies I have ever met. I am blessed to have worked with you and even more blessed to now call you my friend. I can’t wait to see where this journey takes you?

    1. Trenye B.

      September 18, 2018 at 4:46 PM

      Girl…your words are powerful! I am thankful to have you someone like you that supports me, flaws and all ;o)

  5. J.lo

    September 17, 2018 at 3:22 PM

    It’s great to know that you’re doing something that you love and has a passion for looking forward to reading your blogs

    1. Trenye B.

      September 18, 2018 at 4:47 PM

      Thank you! I am excited to venture out on this journey. Serving other is what I love to do. Thanks for your support!

  6. Courtney

    September 18, 2018 at 6:05 PM

    Awesomeness, Trenya❣️Great job…kudos to u❣️❣️I wish u nothing but success?

  7. Brenda Moss

    September 19, 2018 at 9:18 AM

    Trenya, Proud of you for sharing. This will bring needed testimonies from real overcomers that folks can CONNECT.
    God Bless

    1. Trenye B.

      September 19, 2018 at 7:09 PM

      Thank you, First Lady. I miss you all!

  8. Michele

    September 21, 2018 at 8:18 PM

    I will definitely be tuning in!!!

    1. Trenye B.

      September 28, 2018 at 10:15 PM

      Thank you for the support!

  9. Terra

    September 22, 2018 at 5:34 PM

    This is Amazing. I am looking forward to reading this and learning how to Blog myself.

    1. Trenye B.

      September 28, 2018 at 10:14 PM

      Yes. Find your passion and go for it.

  10. Narcisa Maura

    October 1, 2018 at 8:19 AM

    So beautiful, I love what you’re doing and how devoted to your family you are!1 Keep at it sis!

  11. museforhim

    October 8, 2018 at 4:15 PM

    Love this blog post! I would love to hear more about your experiences. You have alot of insight. And, I appreciate you following my blog!

    1. Trenye B.

      October 9, 2018 at 4:49 PM

      Thank you for your kind words. Also for joining me on my journey.

  12. Andrea Warren

    October 27, 2018 at 7:58 AM

    Welcome to the fabulous world of blogging:) I work with at-risk teens here in TX. Looking forward to reading your posts. Best of Luck

    1. Trenye B.

      October 28, 2018 at 12:29 AM

      That sounds so rewarding! That was a portion of my career years ago and I honestly miss the dynamic aspect of that job! I’m looking forward to connecting with you!

  13. Dwight Alleyne

    October 27, 2018 at 10:41 AM

    Looks like you have a loving family to support you in your endeavours.It seems like this will be a very inspirational blog!

    1. mrcraigjames

      October 27, 2018 at 7:59 PM

      We do! Thankyou. Positive vibes and inspirational words thrive here, in what can prove to be a tough world filled with trials and tribulations.

  14. joancajic

    October 27, 2018 at 12:28 PM

    Welcome and nice to know you, can’t wait to read more of your content.

    1. Trenye B.

      October 27, 2018 at 9:27 PM

      Thanks so much for visiting. I look forward to getting to know and growing with you!

  15. Lili Mila

    October 27, 2018 at 4:52 PM

    I am very happy to meet and know another mental health blogger. I can’t wait to read more of your contents.

    1. mrcraigjames

      October 27, 2018 at 7:55 PM

      Welcome! Thankyou so much for reaching out! I’m looking forward to growing with you. There will definitely be more to come!

  16. Casey

    October 28, 2018 at 4:22 AM

    Welcome to the blog world. I think the blog world need more professional people like you to share more info about your profession. Good luck and all the best

    1. Trenye B.

      October 28, 2018 at 2:00 PM

      Thankyou so much. I really wish to help with growth and/or encourage anyone (including myself) that I possibly can.

  17. Sarah Bailey

    October 28, 2018 at 10:21 AM

    It is lovely to meet you – welcome to the blogging world and I wish you all the best on your journey in the blogging world.

    1. Trenye B.

      October 28, 2018 at 2:01 PM

      So very nice to meet you as well and thanks for visiting!

  18. Candace

    October 28, 2018 at 1:07 PM

    Welcome to the blogging life!! I’m so glad to get to know you better and I know that with every post we will become more and more close. We are like a big family!! Wish you success and good vibes with new adventure called blogging.

    1. Trenye B.

      October 28, 2018 at 2:04 PM

      Thanks, and welcome to my site! I love the fact I’m adding to my family ? and your blog is so amazingly entertaining!

  19. Francisca Garreton

    October 28, 2018 at 2:01 PM

    Hey! Welcome! I can’t wait to read more about your stories and your recommendations!

    1. Trenye B.

      October 28, 2018 at 2:06 PM

      Hey Francisca! Thanks for visiting my site!


    October 28, 2018 at 7:58 PM

    Hello and welcome to blogging. I am also from Florida, so we are also neighbors.

    1. Trenye B.

      October 31, 2018 at 8:08 PM

      Sunshine State! Thanks so much for visiting. Thankyou!

  21. Echo aka The Mad Mommy

    October 29, 2018 at 8:05 AM

    I am loving this! I am willing to be that you are able to offer a unique perspective and peek into the world of parenting.

    1. Trenye B.

      November 3, 2018 at 10:23 AM

      Lol, unique indeed! Thankyou, I have definitely dealt with highs and lows.

  22. Dalene Ekirapa

    October 29, 2018 at 9:48 AM

    It’s nice to know you Trenye! I definitely would appreciate knowing more about your life as a military spouse…

    1. Trenye B.

      October 31, 2018 at 8:12 PM

      Nice to me you Dalene! Stay posted, there will definitely be more to follow!

  23. Debby

    October 29, 2018 at 4:00 PM

    You will certainly always have plenty to blog about. My husband and I are both prior military and raised two daughters.

    1. Trenye B.

      October 31, 2018 at 8:23 PM

      I love the sound of “raised”! Lol… it is a work in progress! Thanks so much for visiting and reading!

  24. toastycritic

    October 29, 2018 at 7:24 PM

    I will definitely be curious as to the non-traditional aspects of your husband and military life will be like. I am sure it comes with all kinds of challenges. Looking forward to reading more.

    1. Trenye B.

      October 31, 2018 at 8:27 PM

      Absolutely! This is a dynamic lifestyle and it can make it difficult to find the motivation occasionally, but it’s worth it! Stay posted!

  25. Rosey

    October 30, 2018 at 3:06 AM

    Happy 13 years to you. Your family is very lovely! My son and his wife were living military life for awhile. I was and am still very proud of him. 🙂

    1. Trenye B.

      October 31, 2018 at 8:32 PM

      Thankyou, and you have every right to be proud! Thanks for visiting!

  26. Jennifer L

    October 30, 2018 at 4:30 PM

    Wow you and your family sound absolutely lovely! I look forward to getting to know more on your perspectives. Congratulations on 13th years of marriage!!

    1. Trenye B.

      November 2, 2018 at 9:29 PM

      Thankyou so much! Thanks for visiting!

  27. jennadphotography

    October 31, 2018 at 1:19 AM

    Welcome to the world of blogging. Many highs and lows to follow, but you look like the kind of person that can handle all with such a supporting family. Enjoy, will be back to see what you have to share.

    1. Trenye B.

      November 3, 2018 at 10:19 AM

      Thankyou and please do return.

  28. Zubair

    October 31, 2018 at 3:32 AM

    It’s good to know that you’re doing something that you love and has a passion for looking forward to you next blog

    1. Trenye B.

      November 3, 2018 at 10:20 AM

      Yes, I absolutely love this. It has a dynamic effect for me! Thanks so much for visiting.

  29. toughcookiemommy

    October 31, 2018 at 2:54 PM

    We seem to have something in common because I have been teaching at-risk adolescents here in NYC for eighteen years. It is something that is a passion for me too.

    1. Trenye B.

      October 31, 2018 at 7:57 PM

      Great to hear and great to meet you as well! It’s such a blessing, having a career that’s passion based and impactful!

    2. Trenye B.

      November 11, 2018 at 6:28 PM

      Awesome. I love it! It’s definitely a tough job!

  30. Sayanti

    November 1, 2018 at 10:52 AM

    It is so good to know you and your family. I love meeting bloggers from around the world. Welcome

    1. Trenye B.

      November 12, 2018 at 9:12 AM

      Thank you for visiting my page!

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